Scarf...The Era

The Painter

Say YES to the Dress!

Not this one, but that one is what you say internally to yourself as you choose the right the fit! Scrambling from shelve, window displays, and asking the floor reps to find it, is usually the case as well. That one moment arrives and you find the right color and style and say YES!, is the bestt feeling in the world. At this point the price does not even matter, just as long as you are the only person wearing it and it looks over-the-top GREAT on you you have to do it! It is an MUST. So while shopping in Pasadena, I found that yes dress! The color was "highlighter yellow" and it just screamed buy me. The detail on the shoulder was padded along with 3-d flowers, I mean how could a girl say no to this?? It was chic in every way, so of course me being me I played around in it and acted as if I was in the photoshoot of the lifetime in my mind! I posed and used props! Courtesy of great lighting and a phone I was set. The ideal behind this was that when you see something and you feel it in your heart you should have it, you should buy it. Do not limit yourself from being fashionably loud, its unfair to you and the world! Use every moment in the store as if it is your last. Remember its not what you buy, but how you ROCK it... That goes a long way, dont you think?

Kick It Up... A Notch

Sitting here thinking... It came to me to express in this specific blog to discuss about adding fuel to the flame! You ever just wanted to take your whole look to another level? You know "Kick It Up... A Notch". I do. Relatively speaking I love stepping out my boundaries on everything that I do in life from traveling, to eating, and shopping, its just in my nature to try new things! Thats what this blog is going to go for, adding Hot Sauce to the chicken! lol. Sorry for the expression but its true. People tend to stick in their comfort zone and in most cases its safe but not likely to do. Every moment in life has brought the opportunity to show the inner you, so why not give it a try. It can be through accessories or even through the opposite sex. I consider it a surprise of the lifetime. I like to wear or do something that people would not expect me to do. It keeps them guessing everytime! When people are familiar with your look or actions they can about guess what you will do next. Sad yet True. So this time fans of a fan I want you to "Kick It Up... A Notch! Go to the extremes of giving that ummph! Remember its not what you do its how you do it! If they are staring you must be doing something right, if not then your LOSING! Be the Winner in this case.

Gets My Vote...The Winner!

Winner defined as achiever, succeeder the one ahead of the game that is... Now this specific blog is for the attraction of a man. If you ever notice anywhere you go you mentally have a contest going on in your in your mind. Yes its true, you do. Think about it. Whether going into the mall, club or even the store you have this natural instinct to compare yourself to the others of the same sex. Not even on a homo-style, you will size this person up! When saying sizing up I am referring to their possessions on their back. It can be jewelry to the hair your looking, and trust they are looking at you. Not to get off the beam, back to the man. A woman's first eye-candy starts at the shoes and works itself up, why because you can say alot about a man and his shoes. Some may start from the face and down but either way it goes there is something that will identify a mans wealth. This is when you are in the game and are looking for the "winner". It is such a turn on to see a man that not only values his money but his appearance! Nothing looks better than a well dressed man, but being diverse in his clothing from jeans to suits. You can be in the corner of the room in a public setting and immediately identify who you want. Its such a sensual feeling, not necessarily sexual but sexual. You can even mentally start to believe that this person is the one! Funny. It seems that that person is the perfect match in every way, until later they open their mouth then the truth is revealed. The "winner" has confidence and this strength because he/she knows they can have anyone they want and however they want. Everyone does not have the "winner" effect it is merely a gift...

A Tad-Bit Too Tight...

Ever wore something and it showed too much? Or drew more attention than necessary? Well, this is a "Tad-Bit Too Tight". Think about it. Your body should compliment the clothes, not the other way around. There are plenty of ways of being sexy, without giving the "sex" look. The shirts that show midriff and the skirts that scoot every time you move (unless you just thick like that) means its a "Tad-Bit Too Tight". I love to wear clothes that just lay on my body! The color compliments my complexion, the blouse accentuates my breast and torso, and my bottoms show the small of my waist and the curve of my butt. Its spectacular being a woman. Honestly, I feel loose fitting clothes give the onlooker a "wonder". Under that free flying skirt and boho blouse is a lady. Women get the most flattering remarks when they do not reveal the secrets of their body. Over time it takes maturity and the flexibility of your persona to adopt a more "appealing" wardrobe. Tugging and pulling and sweating are honest signs of clothing being too small or a "Tad-Bit Too Tight". This can be exemplified through the popular "nipple exposure" or the "panty-line" look! Funny yet true and embarrassing. Remember let your body be a mystery... What they do not see will make them more anxious of what they want to know. Think about it.

Beaming..."The Stand Out"

The feeling of wearing an elaborate fit and knowing you will look differ from the rest is, being the "Stand Out". This can be analogized to being the light in the room. Beaming ~define as an expression; to broadcast, radiant luminous figure or body. This meaning itself has to much character for one's hands to type! There is always the right ensemble, for the right moment. Think about it. You ever owned something and you were waiting for the perfect event or time to rock it? I have. I can remember not only myself but others keeping clothes "hostage" for the "perfect" moment. That's crazy but true. Going in your closet looking at that infamous shoe, dress, or bag and in the back of your mind, you are lusting the moment you are going to wear it. It is the most exuberant feeling. I cannot even explain, for a moment I got writer's-block, while reminiscing! It is such an attention demander to have on this "one time" only piece. But, this moment does not last forever, because once the lights go out and you make your grand exit, that will be the last time they will see you wearing "it". Standing Out has rules too. Rule 1.) This outfit does not get repetition. Rule 2.) Wear the outfit do not let it wear you Rule 3.) When wearing arrogance is not needed. You never will have to be flashy in this piece because this type of play is natural. Unique and delicate is what I call it. Beaming is the elaboration of being seen not heard. Few will love you and many will hate you... Trust.

Classy Yet Sassy...

Classy~ defined as elegant and fashionable; a posh, dame. These very words are descriptive when giving off fury in appearance. It shows posture and the inevitable position of being sexy in every way. I love when I wear clothes that give a professional vibe but still has that touch of spice. "Spice" can come from the hosiery under my dress to the height of my shoes. It can be shown through the way I wear my hair, that very ponytail can be worn with a suit, but in the back of "his" mind he is imagining pulling it. I admit that was aggressive but so, true. Ever hear the expression "Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets" well that very line describes "Classy yet Sassy". Never be ashamed to make the classic blouse or pencil skirt give arousal to your environment. The environment can be work, school, and some go as far as church. (But please not church). Writing this is even bringing another side of me out right now! I love wearing the typical "professional" attire and knowing in my mind when I enter into this setting, my body will request stares. While your shaking his and/or her hand they will be sizing you up. Yes, this applies for guys too. The way his suit lays on his body but at the same time he can be versatile and wear a pair of Timbalands and jeans is so sexy. I love it! This gives a transparent picture of how Classy can still be Sassy... "The persona of a man it what he wears, not the clothes..." (think about it)

Cop That...

I love to shop. I mean it does something to me every time, an orgasmic feeling I cannot explain. The only thing with shopping is people can be so nonchalant and obsolete to their purchase. You ever bought something and no matter the price, walking out you felt great? I have. Shit, I am not going to lie next to sex and good wine is the invigorating feeling of going into the dressing room and trying on clothes. I know that was a bit much, but that's honesty. Going pass windows and staring at the combinations provided by department stores and boutiques makes you scream "Cop That". Think about it that blouse, bag, shoe, or simple cocktail ring, makes you imagine of so many ways you can wear it and who will see you in it. Not to leave the fellas out, but they feel the same way to just in a more, masculine way. Even with shopping for hot items comes consequences. The consequence of seeing another person in what you have or want is sickening! The only catch with this consequence on their end, they make it look terrible. The swag is not there! Lucky, for "you" or "me" it does not matter whether a person has it, we make it look good, so take the risk and Cop It. My mother always told me "do not cheat yourself, treat yourself cause if you don't you will regret it"...

My First Time...

My First Time... It was tall, punctuate, and went everywhere with me. My Pumps. It was the first time I knew I was identifying myself as a woman. I felt different, I looked different and even walked different. As I strutted step by step I knew this is it, out with the old in with the new. Heels~ defined as the posterior of the human foot, projection of one bone; in corresponding parts. These very words described every limb of my body. Heels are the definition of a woman's body, the height, color, and frontal toe shape has to interrelate with that ensemble! I can remember when I experienced a heel in the bedroom, first-date, and job-interview. Just think for a moment when a man responds to you when wearing heels, it is quite differently in response to wearing a sneaker or flat. A man once told me "when he sees me in heels that I am a totally different person". Heels are associated with femininity and that inner sexiness waiting to come out. Once you start to wear them, the body is forced to conform and adjust physically to the stride that it will encounter. You can describe it as orgasmic in a sense! Do you remember your first time?

Passion to Dress

Passion~ defined as ardent love. A strong sexual desire combined of lust and desire, an objection of emotion and enthusiasm. These words are adjectives of what you wear and feel when getting dressed. It comes to mind that, clothes are used for determinants. Every essential piece speaks not only to you but others. It sets the mood of a room and the tone of a voice. For example that very tight-fitted dress, that zips up the back, pushes the bust line toward the chin and shows sensuality. That very dress might bring out the inner lioness in you. Clothes are determinants of relationships, it can make or break them. Ever notice the first thing you look on a man is his shoes. Or the first thing a man looks at on a woman is her detail in her attire, how each item compliments each other. What you wear today will set your tomorrow...